![]() So this need to be consistent with their words is going to make them even more adamant and more determined that you two never get back together. They don’t want to backtrack on what they said. Your ex is going to have a need to be consistent with his or her words and will make every attempt to prove themselves right. Now that your ex has made it clear for you after saying that “she or he doesn’t see us getting back together“,” this statement is out in the universe and can’t take it back. Any angry words coming out of their mouth are just an attempt to hurt your feelings so that you lose hope of ever reconciling. Or they are at least trying to hate you because they think this will help them move on. Since indifference nor loving you are options, they hate you. The opposite of love is not hate, it’s indifference. But your ex is too hurt and the wound is too fresh for them to be indifferent. Why should they keep it alive for you? You guys broke up. Your ex is simply trying to kill that hope. There’s always a chance to get back together. Your ex isn’t a psychic or a mind-reader. So your ex is pissed at you and she says there is no chance of getting back together. But if you’re not quite ready to make that leap and think you clean this up on your own, let us explain what’s going through your ex’s mind and what their intentions are when you find yourself saying, “my ex told me we are never getting back together.” My ex told we are never getting back together : is it true ? ![]() You say, “ my ex told me we are never getting back together“.” Your friend cringes and says, “Yikes…” The tell you, “Alright, I guess that’s it… time to let go”īut no! You know you messed up, but you want to make amends and fight for what you know is true love! What do you do then? Well, first of all, CALL US. You go to your friend’s place afterwards, and they ask you how that “talk” went. At this point you’re both at the end of your respective ropes, but you still love each other. The breakup was coming for some time and you both knew it. What if your relationship was tumultuous? You and your ex hurt each other either through betrayal, neglect, unfulfilled promises, etc. What if your ex is the one breaking up with you and says, “I don’t see us getting back together,” yet you still see a possible future with him or her? What’s the move here? Do you accept the statement and gracefully bow out. However, we all know that seldom ends up being the case. One can only hope for a romantic relationship to end on good terms, for there to be no animosity between the two parties, and be on their separate ways peacefully and amicably. Perhaps you two broke up because it wasn’t the right time, or set of circumstances, or even the right person. I think I’m preaching to the choir by saying “Breakups are rough.” At best they can be lightly jarring, and at worst, they can push us over the edge to say or do things we never thought we could or would.
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